Ask Dr. NerdLove: Can I Save Our Sex Life?
Hi Dr. NerdLove, Question for the expert. I’m in a long-term relationship that’s lasted roughly ~3 years. My girlfriend and I (both early 30s) have been living together for two years out... Read more...
View ArticleHow To Take Dating To The Next Level
The process of getting better at dating can be a difficult one. There are a lot of self-limiting beliefs that can be hard to overcome – not the least of which being that you’re... Read more...
View ArticlePaging Dr. NerdLove Episode #41 – How To Avoid Self-Sabotage
It’s hard to admit, but often we are our own worst enemies when it comes to solving our dating issues. We get torn between wanting to fix things and resenting that things need to be fixed in the......
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Approach Working Women?
Hi Doc! I’m a 25 year old guy trying to get back into dating after a few months of hiatus following some unpleasantness with my ex. Online dating is something I generally don’t enjoy and... Read more...
View ArticleStaying Motivated (When You’re Still Single)
It’s easy to get frustrated when you’re single and looking. The world can feel like it’s full of happy couples as far as the eye can see while you’re still the Last American... Read more...
View ArticlePaging Dr. NerdLove Episode #42 – Casual Sex and Where To Find It
While lots of guys who want to get better with women are looking to find that special someone, there are also a lot of guys out there who are hoping to find more sexual partners and some no-strings......
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: Tinder Stresses Me Out
Dear Dr NerdLove, I am a 26-year-old male who has never had a girlfriend and is a virgin. I realize this might seem weird, but various circumstances (being shy in my teenage years, not feeling...
View ArticleBe Proud of Being A Man
There are times when it can feel like being a man is difficult. We’re constantly presented with ideas of what it means to be a “real man”… and that usually includes things... Read more...
View ArticlePaging Dr. NerdLove Episode #43 – Be A Better Man
One of the topics that I return to again and again is the topic of positive masculinity and what it means to be a good man. Problem is… a lot of guys tend to define “being a good man” as simply not......
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: Why Doesn’t My Junk Work Right?
Heyo Doc, I met this girl last summer as a tour guide while I was on vacation. My grandpa talked me into asking her out before we left town, so I gathered up the courage and ended up taking her out......
View ArticleWhat Is Toxic Masculinity?
On occasion, my friends decide I don’t have enough rage in my life. This is why they’ll do helpful things like send me links to stories arguing that toxic masculinity doesn’t... Read more...
View ArticlePaging Dr. NerdLove Episode #44 – How Pop Culture Ruins Romance
One of the long and ongoing themes of the letters I get from my readers is “I thought this is what relationships were supposed to be like”, or “Why doesn’t this situation play out like I expect?”......
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Get My Best Friend to Date Me?
Dr. NerdLove, I found your website after searching for an answer to my problem for hours upon hours on the internet. After seeing some of the advice you gave out, I decided to give it a shot and see......
View ArticleThe Wrong Way To Get Your Ex Back
Breaking up with someone is never easy. Even when it’s a break up that had to happen, you’re going to end up with complicated feelings towards your ex. No matter how bad the relationship... Read more...
View ArticlePaging Dr. NerdLove Episode #45 – What You Need To Know About The Friend Zone
When we talk about The Friend Zone, we tend to talk about it like it’s the worst thing that can happen to somebody – and usually something that’s done to them – either maliciously by... Read more...
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: How Do Fake Having Dated Before?
Hello Dr. NerdLove, I turn 25 in less than a month and I have never dated before. I intend to get stared in the near future. In high school I simply wasn’t ready, in college it basically got... Read...
View ArticleHow To Protect Yourself From a Broken Heart
It’s not a stretch to say that dating is something of a contact sport. Signing up for it means that you’re accepting that you might get hurt. Opening yourself up to people means being... Read more...
View ArticlePaging Dr. NerdLove Episode #46 – The Truth About Nice Guys
Stop me if you’ve heard this one before: you’re talking with someone you’re into, and you think it’s going well when she says the dread phrase: “I wish I could meet a nice guy like you.” And you’re......
View ArticleAsk Dr. NerdLove: I’m A Virgin, How Do I Make Up For Lost Time?
Hi, Doc! First of all, please let me congratulate/thank you for your site. It has been of great help, especially when I have been at a breaking point (almost every day). With that said: get ready,......
View ArticleThis Is Why Women Won’t Date You
Last Tuesday, The Federalist – a conservative news organization that seems to devote at least a third of its coverage to lamenting that women won’t sleep with them – decided to publish the hottest of...
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